Past.......................

I have a past,u have a past and we all have pasts.We experience in our lives some bad,very bad and good or very good memories but past is not always haunting.There are also some beautiful memories that we have treasured in our minds.Then why we always intimidate ourselves by repeatedly thinking about the worst things which happened in our life.why....is the question comes in my mind.May be because force of negativity is more influencive than force of positivity,no...no..not possible,how can the negative vibes ever overpower the positive ones.One day lying on my bed i went into a deep thought and came to a conclusion that 'its just in our minds'..!!.Its our choice whether to frighten ourselves by lingering upon awful face of past or to get ourselves charged up by reminiscising the time when everything was peaceful,vibrant and happy.
One needs a very strong desire and will power to come out of the past which is etched by some indelible images of gloom and murk.However,nothing is impossible,we talk of winning this world cant we winover our pasts??..yes ofcourse we can...!!!!!!
while writing this blog tears are flowing from my eyes because i too had some bad times in past.There's nothing new i m writing ,many of you may say that we've listened all this many a times but have we actually realised that are we coping our pasts? or even if we are,then are we doing it the right way..??.We become emotional depressed,our brain stops working and we act like paranoids recalling our past,but do we ever try to think upon that what are we getting by all this,nothing..but ruination of our physical,social and mental health .
I have no special mantras to get rid of worse memories but all we can do is to persuade and motivate ourselves by saying,'whatever has happened cannot change,we cannot undo things'.Now it depends on us whether to weep and bring our life to a standstill or to move on by giving a damn to bitter phase of life.
Forgetting past is difficult but not impossible but if we treasure the beautiful past it can help us to 'move on'.Ending the blog.i would say 'shed off the gloomy past and remember the delightful past to give you strength in the present to lead the journey of life'.

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After reading my blog do tell me how are you trying to deal with your past..???

Good night..!!