My mum and dad tells me that after having two sons they intensively prayed for a daughter.My two elder brothers whenever used to see a baby girl asked mom and dad that when will they get a little sister.AND,by God's grace my mom expected and all through the nine months of her pregnancy everyone prayed in every possible manner for a baby girl.Look at the miracle of Allah,'i stepped in this world'.I definately don't call my family very lucky to have me ,i would rather say that from one heaven up there in God's lap i was sent into another heaven that is in the lap of my mother & made me the luckiest person on this earth.
I am told , that for each of them i arrived as an angel...and as the title of my blog says...'A BARBIE DOLL'.My parents raised me like a princess,my brothers listened to my every wish.Still remember the days when my brothers used to come back from school , they never came empty handed.There was always something in their hand for me..a chocolate,chips,ice-cream or anything but the things have not yet changed much.I am still a lil kiddo for them and until now i get these perks..hehehe....!!!!
When a child is the eldest in family,there's always a pre-conceived notion in the minds of parents that he/she is expected to be responsible & mature naturally.But the situation is quite different when you are youngest,the mindset & attitude of the family is different towards you.There's always a feeling that,'she's a kid she will gradually get to learn'.In my case the conditions are not very different but that does not mean that my parents don't tell me to be responsible and mature,after all i have turned 18...!!!!!!!!
I am always pampered and treated like a fairy & i too love to get this attention. For my parents , being youngest of me does not ever meant that they spoil me , consider my unreasonable demands or let me do whatever i feel like doing.They always support & encourage my ideas & interests but at every step of my life since birth they infused the ability in me to think prudently,to respect the family honour,realize the value of money & try their level best to impart every virtue of a good human being.
"I AM A BARBIE DOLL OF MY FAMILY & WANT TO BE TILL MY LAST BREATH BECAUSE I M ONE OF THE FORTUNATE PERSON TO GET THIS BLESSING OF god"
Will never let you down mom & dad.......
Love u all.....!!!!!!!!
For me she will always be my cute sis. We continue to adore her the same way we did 18 years ago. However as she is also a mature adult we must always respect her views and give her her space. Loving is as much about letting go as about holding on. Love u cutie
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ReplyDeleteit was a superb article....!!!
u surely do deserve the love u get in your family!!